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Sunday, March 22, 2015

The Equinox and its Important Message for Us All

Happy Equinox Everyone, 

It certainly has been an interesting Equinox with the eclipse bringing us some intriguing promises for the end of April. Eclipses grand slam the weather or world politics, so it will be interesting to see what this brings us around the 20th of this coming month. We certainly are living in some very exciting and transformational times.

I know I have written about this before, but I feel that I can’t remind you often enough. It’s important to do things differently from what you have been used to doing in the past. Our parents and even those of us who were born between the 30s and 80s had our impressions and opinions strongly formed as a result of the Age of Pisces. We have a tendency to glorify the “good old days” and so have been feeling increasingly uncomfortable with this new Age of Aquarius; with its technology and its upsetting of the old ways by virtue of its dramatic changes.

This last era was filled with messages from TV shows such as ‘Leave it to Beaver’ or ‘Ozzie and Harriet’, among others, which portrayed an ‘ideal’ two parent home which was strongly influenced by their permanence. The mother didn’t work, the father was the provider where he was always interested in what their two or three children did. Today is different where the reality of life has changed greatly.

Now we have a situation where many homes have single parent families because the father is absent from the lives of mother and child, or children. If you have grown up thinking that the ideal situation is ‘Leave it to Beaver’, but you are out there on your own as a single parent, then it’s very difficult not to end up feeling that you’ve got it wrong somehow. Blame and guilt are the natural responses to this apparent dilemma.

When you think that your children are going to somehow be disadvantaged or  made less than what’s deemed necessary because you can’t give them this ‘ideal’, which isn’t even an ideal any more, then attitudes need to change. At this point it’s necessary to say ‘What is in my life here? What is the Age of Aquarius bringing me? We need to do this because it’s not ‘wrong’ it’s just ‘different’ and so we have to adapt to the ‘different’ by letting go of the ideals which existed in our parents’ days. Letting go of the past means allowing something new to come into our lives. Change doesn’t have to mean getting worse. It’s simply an opportunity to grow and expand if you are able to positively embrace it.

Whatever the ‘new’ brings then it’s important to approach it with the attitude of ‘I will be the best that I can without bringing forward the judgmental ideals of the past’. In the case of a single parent then it’s okay to say that I will do the very best I can while appreciating my limitations and not condemning myself for them. By stating that ‘I will be the best mother by giving all my love’ while knowing that it’s not possible to be the father as well, then this releases the restricting patterns of old.

Many of us watched our fathers work for the same company for decades while he looked forward to the prospect of retiring on a pension and then spending the rest of his days as a grandparent who often made a hobby out of tending the garden. Today’s Aquarian children have no such aspirations while frequently changing jobs because the Aquarian Age changes things quickly. That’s its purpose, so we have to adapt to a different ideology which the youth of today treats as the norm.

The Hopi Nation in Arizona spoke of this new era change and the energies within it. I have included their prophecy at the end of this blog. They are urging us to live consciously during these times and not out of habit in the ways that our parents always did things.

Don Miguel Ruiz writes in his book, The Four Agreements - Don’t Take Things Personally. We are in a time when everyone is changing and growing at a remarkable pace. Most people are too busy with their own transformation to bother observing and making comment about ours. Don’t assume that if people react oddly around you that it has anything at all do with you. You can notice this as you have conversations with work people and friends. People will happily tell you all of their challenges, but often let an entire conversation go by without asking anything about you. It’s not that they are unfeeling, it’s simply that they are overwhelmed by the speed that things are happening.

Have courage, push yourself away from the shore and let the current of the river carry you to its destination, which might not be your destination, but will certainly be the place where you will evolve most spiritually and where you will find the most peace.

We all wanted to be here for these times. We volunteered to experience them. Don’t hide under a rock, embrace these changes, they are evolving you towards your total transformation,

There is a River, Now Flowing Very Fast

We Are the Ones We've Been Waiting For
You have been telling the people that this is the Eleventh Hour.
Now you must go back and tell the people that this is The Hour.
And there are things to be considered:
- Where are you living?
- What are you doing?
- What are your relationships?
- Are you in right relation?
- Where is your water?
- Know your garden.
- It is time to speak your Truth.
- Create your community. Be good to each other. And do not look outside yourself for the leader.

This could be a good time!

There is a river flowing now very fast. It is so great and swift that there are those who will be afraid. They will try to hold on to the shore. They will feel they are being torn apart, and they will suffer greatly.

Know the river has its destination. The elders say we must let go of the shore, push off into the middle of the river, keep our eyes open, and our heads above the water. See who is in there with you and celebrate.

At this time in history, we are to take nothing personally. Least of all, ourselves. For the moment that we do, our spiritual growth and journey comes to a halt.

The time of the lone wolf is over. Gather yourselves!

Banish the word struggle from your attitude and your vocabulary.

All that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in celebration.

We are the ones we've been waiting for.

--The Elders Oraibi Arizona Hopi Nation --

In love and Light
Mary Pompeo


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